I wish I had just let go as well. I fought his leaving. And with us too, it was a really toxic relationship. I was unhappy. I knew I was unhappy. And I was really angry at him for leaving. I was angry at every spouse that left their partner. I felt it was for lack of commitment and selfishness.. Which I guess it was. What I didn’t except was both people needed to want the commitment or the relationship will not be healthy
Anyway, I feel like I have a 2nd chance at a healthy relationship now. That wasn’t possible with my ex husband. I don’t know if it is him or me. But it just didn’t work. With him, it was more about the potential - but we just didn’t have it and I didn’t see that then.
