Im home with the kid tonight. XW was deep in her phone before not paying attention to anything around her including S2 I walked by her to go out for a smoke, and she minimized what she was doing on her phone. Then I walked back in again, and she presented like she was doing something with her thumbs while just staying on the pin lock screen. Hiding what she was looking at twice. She got all dolled up and went out.
D BIL has been living in basement the last 3 weeks. He's boffing this Colombian girl from a dating app who doesn't speak a lick of English, has kids back in Columbia, and here on a green card. He had her in the basement all last weekend. I never saw it met her. XW and I went pumpkin picking with S2 which I invited her at first, then had 2nd thoughts because she was only coming along for S2 and confirmed this. We still had fun. We had a talk about how BIL had GF over house during weekend. I didn't even know she was in the house. XW brought it to my attention during pumpkin picking. That she wanted to create some boundaries with BIL about using the garage entrance and putting a door on from kitchen to basement, and not expose BIL GF to S2. So anyway after XW left. BIL new GF showed up just now looking for him, and doesn't have a car, and is waiting for him outside.. I called XW and texted me back BIL is on his way. I have her waiting outside. I'm not letting her in the house unless BIL is here or anywhere near S2. Getting tired of these Jerry Springer drama scenarios. I need to protect myself and S2 from this craziness. But I can't because I'm moving anyway. PSA agreement hasn't been signed, and house doesn't sell until next year. Getting parental agreement in place and starting up mediation in the next few weeks. I'm calm and I'm fine and relaxed. But internally I've had it with this F@!king horse$hit. Well at least I know my moral compass is due north.
