Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Curtis, I'm not clear on what exactly you were telling her above, are you telling her that you are proceeding with divorce? Or just that you are done waiting? I'm surprised she didn't ask you what you mean, because that's not clear. What does "move forward with your life" mean to you?

Originally Posted by LH19
Good point. I assumed he meant divorce because of the custody and finances statement.
I’m done living in limbo. That means working towards R or D. She clearly doesn’t want R as the A’s continue, so that means D. She has been on the fence and I’m pushing her off. I’m moving forward and getting out of the lying and infidelity. If she changes her mind and wants R, then she’ll have to fight for me and the MR she destroyed. If that happens, it will be my choice.


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20