I could use some help to save my marriage. Can it be saved? I dont' want a divorce with two small kids.
Originally Posted by Iowadazd
I'm so confused. I keep reading what was said and my head is spinning.
Maybe I wasn't clear in my post. I'm not sure if I can be married to her for her actions. I was the only that brought up divorce. I brought up sleeping in the other room.
Now I am confused. Do you want to save it? Or do you not want to be married to her for her actions? See, here is the thing, we can't help you if you don't know what you want yourself. And that is okay. If you are confused we can help you with that as well.
I know when I discovered my W's EA I wanted to fight to save our marriage. After we started Ring I had a bit of buyer's remorse. Confusion is part of the situation. You just need to try to sort through all of that and decide what YOU want.
Originally Posted by Iowadazd
I was talking to my brother-in-law (W's sisters husband) about what happened. He suggested that I create a fake account then expose her on that website. I thought it was a decent idea.
I think this is a terrible idea. Between this and just confronting her, I would choose confronting her. But obviously it is up to you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
