I'm going to go a little against the grain here. I think you need to work on sex appeal and attraction with your W. I think you need to remain calm for the mean time and not worry so much about her as much as you worry about attracting women in general. But, what is your goal here?
Maybe R2C or some of the gals here will chime in, but she wants to be desired and you aren't going to be able to go from 0-100 overnight. When I was attracting the most women in my life, I was in a good place mentally and able to have fun doing anything. I'd talk to any girl at the bar because I was just enjoying myself, and other women were attracted to that. Right now, I imagine things are pretty tense in your head. That vibe won't work for you well.
Iowa, what are you doing that women find attractive and what are you doing that is unattractive? Are you in shape, do you dress nice, speak well, wear good shoes, make strong eye contact, smile, have nice teeth, do you work on your career, learn things?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
