I'm so confused. I keep reading what was said and my head is spinning.
First, I'm not pursuing her at all. I guess I wasn't clear. My view of her is changed. I'm not chasing her or following her around. I turned her down for intimate times. I am not initiating at all. In fact, I'm still trying to sort out what I found. I'm 99% sure she knows I know.
I'm not sure what you mean by setting up emotional boundaries. Emotions are natural.
Also, outside of the pictures thing there is no indication of her doing anything at all. She isn't reaching out to these creeps. I haven't talked about leaving the house. Also the advice of kicking her out isn't practical. First she is the caregiver for our youngest. I couldn't kick her out without also kicking my kids out. I am NOT going to kick a 6 and 4 year old out.
Maybe I wasn't clear in my post. I'm not sure if I can be married to her for her actions. I was the only that brought up divorce. I brought up sleeping in the other room.
I was talking to my brother-in-law (W's sisters husband) about what happened. He suggested that I create a fake account then expose her on that website. I thought it was a decent idea.
