It is wonderful that your children are talking to you. Do listen and validate whatever and whenever they come to you. It is great that they feel so safe with you they can confide all their mixed up and dark emotions. You are doing very well.
This will undoubtedly cause some further clarity of past events. When explaining to our kids, our minds listen as well, and things move around and eventually click into place. This at first feels like a setback, and I’d like to assure you it is a step forward.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
