Wow, CG, that is great. I'm super happy for you-- feel like you are the poster child for doing DB right!! A couple questions-- what logistical steps does he need to take to "officially" move home? Also, are there open questions you have about what caused him to move out in the first place? I'm just wondering if it would help you to feel more secure to both understand the concrete steps he's taking to commit back to the MR and living at home, and if you have lingering questions about what happened in the first place. I remember some of the posters were wondering if there was an A, and I wonder if part of you is having a hard time believing/trusting where he is right now because you still don't totally understand why he behaved the way he did. Probably all stuff best to work through in MC but might be time for you to do an internal temp check on where you are and what you want in a new R so that you can have clear goals as you move forward? Hope you keep posting
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
