Murphy, its you !

[gzabetas]

thanks guys, as you put it AS, any contact we have is because of our kid.
But she milks it for everything, knowing my love for him.

So her concern is that she wants the car I left behind. To drive the kid to school on cold winter days coming up.

She makes a valid point, but when I offered it last month she turned it down.
Now my dad has it.

I got my dad to agree to pick up the kid at her place on the cold days and drive him to school.
But she doesn't want to see my dad. She only wants the car.

Whenever I would reason with her in the past, she acted like she had it all planned.
Now that its collapsing - like we all knew it would - she is even crazier.

She made this choice. I hate to clean it up.
By making my dad her chauffer now, by me paying big alimony checks.
By always keeping my temper in control, to not have my son see all this.

Man, we should we very careful who we decide to have kids with.
I thought I was, but human beings are great at hiding the dark side. Until they don't.

I don't want to bore you with all this, as we are all fighting a version of this.
Of that I am sure.