I talked to my SIL yesterday (H's sister). We have never been close but she & her H have split up recently so we have been chatting more.

Her H is having A that she found out about. She is so different from me. She has completely written off her M & H (& they have kids too), was upset for about a week & now says she would never take him back, does not love him at all & is already looking to meet new guys.

It just seems really unhealthy to me to want to move on that fast. I know their problems have built up over alot more years than ours but it just seems like it will have to come back & effect her more someday.

Just some thoughts.

slt