Murphy, its you !

[gzabetas]

So we have been divorced now for 6 months and even living in different coutries.
I am back in the USA for work, to support my alimony checks.

Of course she is still emotional and argumentative and blames me for all.

No matter how much I give or do I am always at fault.
We skype so I can see the kid, and she complains about how difficult it is to raise it alone.
How I didn't leave her my car. Which I offered and she called a piece of junk back then.
And I prepaid alimony till the end of the year. But still she is pointing fingers at me.

Like an immature 4 year old. Who thinks the world revolves around her.

I really don't know what to do. Every time we talk I smoke again, even though I quit this year.

I know the advice is to validate her.
I cant. Really I cant anymore. She keeps adding to the list. It has tired me tremendously.

Wonder if the vets, pros or anyone really has any advice on how to handle this.

I know this is hard on her. But all of this was her choice. All of it.
Its not my fault the greener pastures didn't exist. We all know that here.