WMLC - Thoughts appreciated!

[peacetoday]

The clinger blames you and yet cannot let go and move on. They try to keep you in their orbit, keep you engaged, keep you around, keep you as plan B.

The vanisher, which my XW is, leaves and doesn’t look back - that we know of or see. Very little to no contact from them, even with their children. They leave their old life and grab on to their new.

The boomerang leaves and circles back, over and over. Unable to let you go, and unable to commit.


Love this DNJ

I believe
They may also change their role as time goes on

MY XH could be quite chatty at the start of separation process..he would visit very often and he lived opposite end of large city with OW..then he became a vanisher

I would not read into anything..I think the MLCer gets scared especially when D starts and they see the reality
MY XH was very nice ...until D started
During D...you have to watch out..they lie, manipulate, and blame

He lost everything, and I fought him tooth and nail for the kids
He was draining the business funds as well and he lost that too-

He and OW were using drugs and incompetent to raise my children-then both young enough to be seriously affected
OW had abandoned her own Daughter and was an addict and bimbo

I would personally want to know where my kids would be going and who with
They pick losers, addicts, and psychos