H is being a total jerk. He is saying that if I agree to a divorce & say it to him, he will give me whatever I want. I have always said that if he wants it, he can pay for it. I realize I will have to pay eventually but I am not doing the leg work & paying to get it started.
He said that if I will agree to a divorce then he will help me with stuff around here & help pay bills. If I don't agree, he will not make the truck pmt which is in both our names. He knows this makes me nuts because I don't want my credit to be any worse than it already is (alot because of him...)
So do I come out & say "yes, I will agree to a divorce"? I feel like I am giving up then but otherwise he is mean & acts like I am desperate because it will be my 2nd divorce. he says that on purpose cuz he knows it gets to me. He says there is no reason to fight it because he is never coming back to me. All this from the guy who loved me so much the day before he said he was moving out again, who said he would never really get divorced & we were doing so good working on things. I feel like he has such a 1 track mind right now that if I don't say yes I want a divorce then we will never have a chance to get past this. He says he just wants me out of his life for good. I told him I don't know what I did to deserve being treated like this - I never claimed to be perfect but I also know I always treated him pretty well.
Please - any input right away would be greatly appreciated.
