Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Thanks AS,

Thing is that I haven´t thought about her much at all. Her moving out is the best thing that could have happened for my mental health. But it feels like cheating in a way. I´m making it very easy for myself. Detaching that used to feel so hard seems like a piece of cake when I don´t see her.

Now, if I was to run in to her with another man at this point, that would be horrible for me and I would probably be very affected by it. But I live in a big city so fortunately it´s not that likely.

Thanks, yeah I don´t understand why the direct messages don´t work here. Most forums have that function. I´m going to step it up a notch now and work out even harder. Trying to build more muscles for next year so that seems like a good goal to have.

I deactivated my FB account when things ended with W. We have too many mutual friends and I felt I needed a break from it. I unfriended her first so she doesn´t pop up when I activate it again whenever that will be. But I still have Instagram where I blocked her. So maybe there