Hi CW - we still both own the home (mortgage). We own it 50/50. It is up for sale. I'm living at my parents' 40 miles away. Her brother's house is about 25mins away from "our" house.
I still have quite a bit of my stuff there (in the garage, plus all the furniture that will eventually be shared and we've agreed who gets what in writing), but I have not lived there since the end of May.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020