I told her I just want space from her right now. I left.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
I believe holding this line is by far your best chance.
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When she has to deal with the pain of your loss, that's when your best shot will come.
I completely agree. Show by your actions that you want nothing to do with her while she is having a sexual relationship with someone else. Let her miss you. If you are important to her, she will come begging for you to take her back. At that point you will have grown a lot have more tools to deal with her. Believe me, I have seen this play out many times.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Change the locks
I strongly suggest doing this today.
I am sorry you have to go through this. We are here for you.
HUGS
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