I have moved to [brother's house] and will be splitting my time between his and the house so that I’m closer to work and not so lonely. If you wouldn’t mind dropping in regularly to make sure things are ok with it that would be good also.
Remind me—what is your arrangement on the home? My ex stayed in the home but owed rent. Half the rent went to her, half the rent went to me. She was responsible for day to day care any renter would do, and would be responsible if her negligence (e.g., leaving something on when on vacation) led to any issues. I think your arrangement (e.g., “co-landlords”) would help dictate how much checking in you should be doing. E.g., as a landlord maybe every month or quarter.
