Is this something you wanted to do or was it just to please him and show him how much you want things to work out?
H was looking to move out the day after BD, but he has little income. He was going to rent a place an hour away (the closest he could somewhat afford) that cost more than his entire monthly income—he was going to do work for the landlord to make up the difference, and planned to commute to watch the kids every day. He’s on VA disability for his PTSD and gets less than $1000/month.
Since I need him to still watch the kids, I told him I would move out rather than have him living so far away. I know he would have moved even if it made no financial sense for him to do so. I have looked into daycare options, but finding a place with openings has been impossible.
