WW still living somewhere else, going on 5 weeks now. Last in person talk was 1.5 weeks ago when she mentioned the idea of moving back in. Been in NC still, just few text exchanges on "business" stuff. Maybe WW was trying to run into me at home last couple of times, but I was not home.
Part of me wants to call her out on the affair and lies when we talk, but I feel like that's not the right DB approach. Not sure if this comes off as me being a doormat. Trying to find the right balance to handle the affair and lies. Part of my 180 was not to be angry, and throw around my "power" of ownership - I know, childish... so I have been not escalating any discussions, and being polite if she needs to come home to grab stuff.
Started reading No More Mr Nice Guy, but after the first chapter, I feel like it doesn't apply to me as much. I've always been argumentative and confrontational (if you read my back story). I'll keep reading the book, maybe I can still pick up some bits and pieces of how to be strong and respectful.
For now, continuing NC and giving her time and space. Been enjoying time alone, starting to find that I can appreciate the moment much more when I'm by myself and have time to think.
