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I would tell her to respect your privacy and no longer show up unannounced. Then I would change the locks.
This is most likely counter-intuitive on what you feel like doing. The more counter-intuitive it feels, the more likely it is you best action.

Originally Posted by AnotherStander
She's got to learn to miss you.
This is also counter-intuitive. Let her miss you.


'We're meant to lose the people we love. How else would we know how important they are to us.' - Mrs. Maple (The Curious Case of Benjamin Button)


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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