Sage, What wise words! I even got things out of your posts here. Gave me a little understanding in my H actions as of late.
My 2 cents is go with sage's advice. BUT NEVER ask your S to leave. If they want to go, let it be their choice. Otherwise you will have regrets, believe me I do. It was the worst choice I made.
And thanks sage! your posts were like a light bulb being turned on!
