In my opinion, ultimately K probably shouldn't be telling anyone how to use their phone. It is controlling and unattractive. I think a better way of stating it would be to simply leave the room or house when phone use is excessive.
Originally Posted by KristinG
My Actions: Stopped snooping (HOORAY). Trying to learn to listen and let her talk through things. I don't initiate any conversations. I don't call her first, I don't initiate texting convos, I don't ask about plans.
K,
this is a great start.
I want you to think about what actions you can take to prevent further pain brought on by your W. Or in other words, what is she doing that hurts you the most right now?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
