I understand and I´m sure she will sort something somehow. But I´m also not a monster. Even if it was my worst enemy, I would still help in a crisis situation so it´s not about wanting to solve her issues or dropping the rope.

Haven´t given this much thought at all, still plenty of time left so we´ll see what happens.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019