Sorry R2C that is ideally what should happen but not what is recommended by my lawyer or D13's therapist. In this particular circumstance they both believe unless it is a direct question regarding D13 that needs to be answered for safety or health or I am legally required to respond, I should have no contact at all with my XW. Since she just emailed a statement it requires no response. It is both of their opinion that we should parallel parent and since XW only has D13 for 52 days of the year the reality is she has very little to no parenting responsibilities. For now (hopefully not forever) the therapist believes to be the best.


1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019