I believe once a couple gets to "Together at last", they both should be going out of their way to meet the other persons needs. True giving.
I am not sure if you are there yet. How do you get there? I think it is part of the MC.
One of my mantras: "As the man, I am in charge of the sex and romance department."
Seeing the desire in my ladies eyes and having her initiate a full on french kiss is priceless. This almost always happens when I am not being needy. I am just enjoying her for who she is. I am being romantic. I make it all about her.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
