Aside from not being okay with her move back in... what else can I do to dictate the situation. I can be a complete a-hole (which I'm fairly capable of, and have been in my MR if you read my thread), completely dark, or file for D?
Going dark is not being a jerk. It is just not initiating contact. Many have the wrong idea about going dark. You do not ignore her. Here are the rules:
1) Do not initiate contact. 2) If she initiates contact, don't answer if its a fall call. You are busy. Call her back at your leisure later. If she texts, do not respond to the text right away. 3) Speaking of texting. If she texts, you only respond to questions. If her text is informational, no need to respond. If it is a question, answer it, but again, not right away. Answer on your time.
On the questions of filing. Do you want a D? Until you can answer that question with a "yes", then do not file. Never file for D to try to evoke a reaction. It almost always backfires.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
