Originally Posted by IHCLACS
Curtis I just had another thought. Your're WW spirit is like a wild horse that wants to be tamed and controlled, but in her own demented sense. Some people I guess get tired of playing the good girl/good boy, and go down the long dark road of lust, pain and self destruction. Maybe you should tie her to the stable, pull her hair, and break out the riding crop?
Haha, interesting. I’ve skimmed some of the scenes in her romance novels and had similar thoughts related to the stable. That reminds me that I texted her some time ago when I was learning about Mr. Grey asking if she had a riding crop. Her response was something along the lines of “Whoa. Don’t go there. Please.”

Originally Posted by IHCLACS
The matter is two fold. They all want to be CONTROLLED by a man who is masculine but not CONTROLLING.
I think this describes her to a tee right now.


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20