Curtis I just had another thought. Your're WW spirit is like a wild horse that wants to be tamed and controlled, but in her own demented sense. Some people I guess get tired of playing the good girl/good boy, and go down the long dark road of lust, pain and self destruction. Maybe you should tie her to the stable, pull her hair, and break out the riding crop?
The matter is two fold. They all want to be CONTROLLED by a man who is masculine but not CONTROLLING. A man that has control of himself, his emotions, and his reality. Its their submissive nature, but...They will always be trying to seek control over you in a relationship, they want to comadeeer the relationship. You have to do that. You have to assume all the responsibilities, planning, upkeep of the R. They will try over long periods of years to take control. Being disappointed (and believe me they never forget.) Its something i've realized is the $hit testing" never stops. You re going to hear things like "Man up" "You don't do XYZ for me" ect." When you hear this, its going to have some validity depended on if and where you failed. If it doesn't, then its a narrative coming from her, that she learned from other peers and influences along the way. If you are CONTROLLING. You are going to hear. "He's manipulative" "He never lets me do what I want..." "He doesn't support me" yadaya.
Take what you are going through to learn to set boundaries for yourself first. Always be willing to walk away if they get crossed more than twice without resolve, effort or communication, and always put yourself, your emotional health and self esteem, and self worth first AT ALL TIMES! This is going to be key to eradicating NMMG IMHO.
