Originally Posted by LovingIt
Originally Posted by MMM12

Yes! I want a tough guy who won't put up with my $#&t, understands my crazy, but also soft and romantic on the inside. Just like in the novels I read. Lol.


Just like on the flip side... I want a hot woman who's athletic, parties, freaky in bed, but also a educated, smart, caring, and good wife / mom...

Let me know when you find your unicorn, and I'll do the same :P

Sorry to hi-jack your thread Curtis!


Dude this is the essence of why we are all here. Everyone thinks they deserve better, thinks they can do better, wants to be treated better, either freaky, controlled, or understood. Thanks for pointing out it works both ways. I don't think most people realize that. What men want, women don't consider, and what women want, men don't consider. But the fantasy Rom Com, story novel, Under the Tuscan Sun, Eat Love Pray, Gilmore girls, I married a porn star, lady in the street freak in the bed, grass is greener deluded reality bull$hit needs to stop. Too easily influenced into searching for something/someone that may or may not exist, and creates a false narritive. Its short term at best with long term consequences. To do what you feel is immature, to do what is right take a humility and courage. Real people have flaws. We are all imperfectly perfect. MM12 and Loving It. Great examples of the differences of what Men and Women want