Hey C, you are wrapping yourself in your own web. Affair fog and all that environment is a really powerful drug. You are doing too much mind reading and flowing into inconsistent assumptions. Get out of that path.
Nef, thanks. The longer W stays in affair fog, the less her actions bother me. It has become commonplace. She’s living her life and I’m living mine.
I do however get an inkling to force action occasionally. For instance, last night when D5 was going to W’s car for the kid exchange, she said “I hate going back and forth between two houses.” W just blew it off in her selfish way. I don’t want to keep my kids exposed to this much longer and have them think this is an acceptable form of MR.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20