Aside from not being okay with her move back in... what else can I do to dictate the situation. I can go completely dark, or file for D?
Here's my last text exchange with her this weekend...
(Friday) WW: Are you goin to (place), if so when WW: I need to stop by and grab something ME: What time are you thinking? WW: I don't know WW: Did you not want me to come by ME: You can grab stuff WW: Are you trying to avoid me then? ME: Didn't think about it either way WW: Okay WW: Just wondering if there was a reason you wanted the time WW: I can give you a heads up beforehand
(Saturday) WW: Ok probably going to take the bus over soon ME: okay WW: Where did you go ME: (place) WW: Jealous WW: Volunteering at (place)
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No, don't go dark or file D. You're thinking too extreme. Keep up your GAL and self-care, read some past threads and read the advice given. There is a lot of good stuff of these boards. My advice is only to not jump the gun and want to put a band-aid on the problem. Go slow. Like others have said, don't consider anything until the AP is out of the equation etc. I'm simply reiterating to not be a doormat and the perfect plan B. You don't need the dictate anything. Just don't be her puppet. Example what not to do: She calls you run to her. You agree to everything she wants when she wants it.
