Something to think about. Do you want this M back right now or do you want your M back forever?
If you want it forever you really need to somewhat dig your heels in the sand with her and stop letting her dictate how this is going to go. You want a new, non-cheating version of your W, who puts in effort and works with you to make a better M. Who you have now is not going to put in the work because you are making it too easy.
Aside from not being okay with her move back in... what else can I do to dictate the situation. I can be a complete a-hole (which I'm fairly capable of, and have been in my MR if you read my thread), completely dark, or file for D?
Here's my last text exchange with her this weekend...
(Friday) WW: Are you goin to (place), if so when WW: I need to stop by and grab something ME: What time are you thinking? WW: I don't know WW: Did you not want me to come by ME: You can grab stuff WW: Are you trying to avoid me then? ME: Didn't think about it either way WW: Okay WW: Just wondering if there was a reason you wanted the time WW: I can give you a heads up beforehand
(no response from me)
(Saturday) WW: Ok probably going to take the bus over soon ME: okay WW: Where did you go ME: (place) WW: Jealous WW: Volunteering at (some other place)
