What should I do if WW brings up moving back in and working on MR again? Do we then discuss conditions and boundaries? I just don't another relapse. I do detect inconsistencies in her statements and she still works with AP. I honestly think that she's still in her fog, and just trying to alleviate the pain of losing her stable connection at home, but once back home, she might then focus on her desire for the affair again.
I don't think 3 weeks is enough to make her realize her wrongs and to stop it esp. considering she is a serial cheater. It sounds like a temp check. She needs to think she may have lose you. The suggestion from others to tell her you need to think about it is perfect. She needs to figure out how to change herself and be able to verbalize and show that to you. That's something only she can do. Not having you as a crutch may help that along.
