MMM, I appreciate your POV. In the initial posts on my sitch I mentioned that my W had become obsessed with reading romance novels a couple years before leading up to BD. Also, about 2 weeks before BD she actually verbalized that to me for the first time in that she wanted a different sexual experience. Think 50 Shades stuff.
Could it be that the APs are playing that role and she is so into it that she’ll take any form of abuse to keep it alive and get her next fix?
Yes! That could very well be it. I read where Sandi talked about romance novels being in her sitch too and it totally resignated with me. I want THAT life. I think I still do and what I am always searching for. Maybe that is part of my problem and need to stop reading and watching romance. 😂 That's amazing though that she could verbalize what she wanted sexually. That's tough to do.
I'll read your whole sitch. I never feel qualified to add anything so normally I lurk.
