I almost forgot this part, this has been years ago so it isn't fresh. I started going to college and became friends with a man I met there. He would always flirt with me and I really liked it. He gave me the excitement and confidence that was very much missing in my R. He constantly made me laugh. When I left ex the first time these are the feelings that lead me there, that someone else could make me happy like he couldn't. So maybe I was always a WW.
Also, DS1's father is a really, really good guy. I didn't realize it then and only saw that he wasn't giving me what I wanted and needed out of a R. He ended up getting married to someone who, much like me but worse, walked all over him. She cheated several times, left him, came back. They finally divorced and he is now happily remarried to a wonderful woman. His NGS followed him. I don't know if it still is an issue but he found a keeper.
