D13 is doing great when she is with me. We have been into card and board games lately and have been having a lot of fun. I continue to teach her how to cook and she is getting really good at it. We both made biscuits and gravy from scratch this morning and it was fantastic. Today we went for a beautiful fall hike and captured a lot of really amazing pictures. She is getting all A's and B's and isn't minding that I am her teacher in two of her classes.
D13 has an appointment with her therapist on Wednesday and hopefully can come up with some better mechanisms to deal with her anxiety while visiting her mother. Each visit with her mother seems to worsen their relationship. Until her mother can stop putting the blame on me, and look at her own actions during her time with D13, I doubt anything will improve.
XW does things that sometimes make me go ??? She emailed me that she was going to D13's parent teacher conference and attached a screen shot of the appointment time. I didn't respond as usual but can't figure out why she would even bother telling me. She knows I am the IT administrator at the school and would have been the one to set up the parent teacher conference schedules on the school computers. Why bother contacting me about something she knows I would see? Is she trying to say "see I am a super involved mom"? She emails about stupid stuff maybe once every week and I never respond so why does she keep doing it?
1st BD December 26, 2008 PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008
2nd BD May 23, 2019 Daughter confirms EA Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019