I like a guy to say he just wants to be with me. Spend time with me, cuddle with me, whatever. It’s nice to know you are wanted.
What isn’t good is being jealous, or nasty and cranky when you are turned down for those things and you don’t get your way.
However, this usually works much better when you are in a good place. She will be receptive to it if she is comfortable with you and wanting to spend time with you. If she is t feeling you, she won’t be receptive.
In my last relationship I felt like I always had to play the distance card to get him to come closer. It was like the only way it worked. It shouldn’t be that way though. You should be comfortable with your partner in being able to say “ I mjust want to spend time with you and connect” rather than have to play the distance pursuit game all the time. It gets really old for me.
I know R2change gives lots of advice on attracting women and keeping their attraction. Some i feel is accurate, we donlike to be made to feel sexy and wanted some times. Other times, I just love to know the guy I’m with wants to be with me and connect with me on a different level. More emotionally, rather than physically ( and I am high drive) I love when the guy I love just wants to spend time with me and excited about it ( my LL is quality tome)