Plane tickets bought for D13 and myself to visit my sister in Florida this spring. Disneyland reservations made for Christmas Day. It is looking extremely festive in our fully Halloween decorated house. All in all I can't complain.
I figure I have a house that is paid for, a car that is paid for, a daughter who loves me and I love her, and a full time job. If I can't find joy in that I need to take a very hard look within myself. It is not the life I wanted but it is the life I am learning to love.
There is very little anger left more just a huge sense of loss at what I thought I had. Only communication from XW is the once a week email from her accusing me of ruining her relationship with D13 and denying her visitation time. None of it is true and hopefully she will one day see it is her actions during her time with D13 that is causing the problems. I have gone extremely dim and my only communication is D13's therapy appointments date and time through email. There has been no other contact at all.
1st BD December 26, 2008 PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008
2nd BD May 23, 2019 Daughter confirms EA Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019