I’ve been reading through your sitch lately and was curious about the email you wrote your H that started his quick turnaround. You stated that you didn’t want to live in limbo, it wasn’t fair to confuse the kids, and that if he was planning on filing for D, then get going so you could move on with your life.
Was the email indeed that short? Did you expand on anything else like explaining the damage that was being caused by the PA or trying to open his eyes that he was chasing a fantasy?
My WW has been having multiple PAs for 11 months. I too am ready to end my limbo one way or the other. I have drafted an email, but it contains many, many questions about her choices for W to think about. I’m debating whether I’ll ever send it or perhaps a majorly condensed version.
Thank you, Curtis
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
