An interest idea peace, I just make the two year mark.
BD 2017
W leaves me, kids, house, belongings, dogs, everything on the night of BD. In three hours she is living with OM.
Two months later we are separated. 9 months later, she jumps the gun by a month and files for divorce. Nothing is changed from her original separation arrangement. I have house, pension, no alimony payments, and full custody of kids - she just ran away.
She has basically not spoken to me since. She speaks to (not with) the children sporadically, around 20 hours a year, maybe.
Currently she is still living with OM and his S19.
Her progress. She is reaching out to the kids a bit. And one time actually said sorry (sort of) to S22 for how she left.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
