Where is your MLCer 2-10 years into/or post crises

[peacetoday]

Someone posted a question on what to expect from the MLCer as we see them making progress
and hopefully getting through the crises

I thought it would be interesting to hear where your MLCer is now

I can start

No real changes in my story:

BD in 2007

D in 2009

months after D
XH M OW in 2009

leaves state and abandons his kids and family od origin

phone call from MLCer 2017 reaching out left apology
he is drunk

2017 hear xh got D and maybe back with OW

hear XH in recovery again

but no real confirmation and no contact since 2009

still believing he will find his way for closure and the kids
but I have moved on


Post your situation
It would be interesting to see how many come through and makes progress over the years