Yes, Chimp paradox was a good book. Lent it to my S (who is now 19), who managed to let his dog destroy it
How's your life panning out?
Believe it or not, I'm still muddling through this situation - I guess we've been officially separated for a couple of years now, although living under the same roof. W built a cabin in the garden with some inheritance she had, so she moved into that last weekend. She's in a position where she wants to start dating, after a spell on tinder. OM in America was still on the scene until a couple of months ago, but they've argued and stopped talking.
Looking at selling the house again in 2020 - last sale attempt fell through last year when the buyers pulled out.
I'll check back in... hopefully won't be another 18 months!
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
