The meme she sent I would not have wrote back or acknowledged it . Yes you are reading into it . One minute she’s calling you to come over next minute she’s telling you that you both need separate paths . Believe none of it .
You need to figure out your 180. Mine was always being available . So I stopped . One night H was texting me back and forth . Nothing bad cute stuff . I don’t know why it hit me at that moment but I said to myself this is ridiculous. You leave , say you don’t want to be married then text me all cutesy. At that minute I wrote back I have to get sleep I have a big plans for the morning and don’t want to be tired . Was a total reversal for me . I always would pick up phone ,answer texts , drop everything . Boy did it get thrown up a few times passive aggressively. I ignored it . See he chose not to be here . I did not have to be there every second . Your W chose to have an affair . She is still involved with AP. She chose not to live in your home . Your 180 most likely will throw your W into a bit of anger just ignore it . She will be angry you aren’t there like she thought but stay your course . You are strong and confident !Do not bring her Taco Bell . But you have to 180 because you are just sitting waiting for her to change her mind. She has nothing to change her mind about your still there whenever she wants .
