I'd educate the kids on marriage and the rules of it.
Obviously the rules suck for all of us LBS. Takes one person to declare the marriage is over. (legally)
LB,
You consider yourself married. Your wife considers herself divorced. The courts consider you married. Your kids consider you divorced. I consider you divorced, you are wrapping up loose ends.
Are you still hoping to bust your D? If your W has a change of heart, then you have a new marriage.
Wrapping up loose ends might be an understatement. We have 3 houses and about 2.8M in assets to deal with. She wants it all for herself. This is going to be a long drawn out fight I believe. By February I am going to be working 16 hour days 7 days a week. I won’t have time for any of this and that is when she will argue I don’t want to spend time with the kids to the court. This is speculation I know; but my gut feelings are right more than not.
She left a spray bottle in my truck and added $1.50 to her tracker of things I owed her.
She is still fighting to get me supervised visits for 2 hours a month. This won’t happen but shows her mid set. Words say she wants me to spend more time with kids. Actions say she never wants me to see them again. Only reason I see them is the temporary orders say she must let me see them.
Ran into a buddy I hadnt seen in a while. He was quite put off at first; then I realized the story he had from W was I deserted them and left them destitute and I filed for divorce so I could be with a younger woman. He knows the truth now without all the details. Nothing but lies being told.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
