How do you start to take back respect? It feels completely counter intuitive to just start ignoring her. Maybe it should feel counter intuitive, but I want to stay stable and "be the lighthouse". In our situation ignoring seems like it may come off as rude or cruel. We haven't had any R talks in over a month and so I haven't brought up the affair. This week I finally stopped snooping and checking our phone record so I truthfully don't know if they are talking. Bringing up the AP only makes her angry and pushes her away so I have been avoiding anything around the subject and trying to ignore its existence. I guess I'm trying to figure out how to 180.
Am I reading too much into the poem/writing she sent about how "but I have to take my own path and she can see us together one day in the future chasing the same dreams"? I'm just like WTH..
Ovr, I shot you a comment on your thread and just finished reading all of it. Thanks for the comments!
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