Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
What things can you do to arouse interest in her? Last year I downloaded Snapchat ( I hate Snapchat and my W knew that) because a friend said to. I got a bunch of texts and calls. My W assumed I was chatting with other women on there and quizzed me about it. Is there something like this that is maybe an indirect way of grabbing attention? Personally I wouldn't want to go peacocking past her if I was you, but there's got to be a way to arouse some interest.


^^^YES^^^ My take on this is you do it by getting out, GAL'ing, getting back in touch with old friends, making new ones. The byproduct of that is you'll be getting and returning a lot of calls and texts which communicates to her that you are BUSY and HIGH VALUE. Even if it's nothing but guys you're talking to, she doesn't know that. She just sees you reading, smiling, laughing, replying and it'll make her wonder what you're up to.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57