Hmm. AS i have to say that sounds more rude than detached you know what I mean?
That's NGS talking.
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We also have a son so I can’t just up and leave without asking her if she’s got the boy taken care of
Yes of course, that is why I mentioned before that you need to SCHEDULE your evenings off with your W. But you didn't do that, did you? Tell her you need a couple of evenings to do as you please, and offer her the same. You take Tuesdays and Thursdays and she watches S, and she gets Mondays and Wednesdays and you watch S. That, like what I posted above, is an EXAMPLE. You have to TAILOR it to your specific needs, not make excuses not to do it. On your days you go do your own thing. She asks where you're going you say "out". Get it?
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W where are you going? H out W uhm ok I guess I’ll watch S thanks for letting me know (sarcasm). And where are going H to watch the gameIt's Thursday, my evening to do my own thing as we previously agreed to. W uh ok, you couldn’t have said that the first time I asked. Why are you being a dick?? H I will not be spoken to in that manner, and besides, it's time for me to head out (leaves, closes door)
