What you are experiencing is what as known as the “illusion of action” where you feel you need to do something. When in essence do nothing and giving her space is doing something. It’s actually even better because it’s what she wants so that means you are listening and understanding her. Everything you listed above is just your mind convincing you that it’s ok to pursue which is unfortunately the worst thing you can do right now.
Time and space are valuable for two reasons. One it helps you detach and two it gives her the opportunity to miss you. Hey I haven’t hear from Steve I wonder what he’s up to right now?
Right now you’re making decisions based on fear and what you fear you attract.
