First off you are not detached because if you were you would not care if she said no to the Chiefs game and would not care if she said work was just fine. In fact not only do you care you took answers she gave you that are perfectly acceptable and turned them into she hates you.
Second I am not sure I can give you anymore advise because you take things out of context. I gave you advice based on your insistence that you were ready to end the limbo. Even thenI specifically told you that I didn't think you were ready, I think you need to get back to the DB basics. Print of Sandis 37 rules and start implementing them.
When you asked her to go to the game that is pursuit. Which well not advised is ok if when she turns you down it doesn't effect you in anyway. It clearly did so I think you need to stop all pursuit.
