Nah mate, don't ask her about anything. This is pursuit, plus if you're suddenly concenred she may think your mate dobbed on her with you.

It's like that saying 'dont ask, dont tell'. That's your mantra.

Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24